Another moronic statement from wink-eyes, as usual. The hell does it mean for a girlfriend to "happen naturally?" It isn't "natural" for a man to find a lass without taking his own action and effort to find one. Your experiences (or lack thereof) with women on your crummy island are not uniform to mankind's, especially in comparison to a White Westerner's. Gathering swarms of whores by being exceptionally attractive is not the sole way to finding love in this world, despite what your excessive (and, at times, rather gay-sounding) theorizing about "Chads" proposes. I despise the oblivious absoluteness that always seems to be packed into your untrue, dispiriting words.