Harlequin
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Just to clarify... BOTH ARE GAY!!! These things being gay is not mutually exclusive. I just have to clarify that because sometimes someone will say "oh well if you think getting pegged is gay then you must think having sex with a femboy is straight".... NO!!! There is something gay both about getting a plastic dick rammed into your ass, and something independently also gay about having sex with a biological male...
But, I was wondering on my walk today... Which is gayer? I think if you are asking which one is more essentially gay, gayness as a quality, it is clearly the sex with a catamite or whatever. But if you are asking which one is more gay, where gayness is not an essence but a lack of essence -- a pathological disruption of natural order... It is possible that getting pegged is worse, because it is in some ways more deviant. Not only are you being sexually penetrated and becoming womanified, but it is by a woman who has become mannified. This is a complete inversion of natural order, meanwhile sex with a catamite is more like a 90 degree rotation of it. Also, I clarify intercrural sex because historically it has been perceived as not as bad as anal sex.
Also by this logic, having sex with a tranny or a crossdressing male is actually gayer than having sex with a man who is merely effeminate. Which is counterintuitive, but I like it because I have had the displeasure of meeting or talking to men who are actually dating trannies and they clearly think they are straight and will act like what they're doing is straight when it so obviously is not.
But, I was wondering on my walk today... Which is gayer? I think if you are asking which one is more essentially gay, gayness as a quality, it is clearly the sex with a catamite or whatever. But if you are asking which one is more gay, where gayness is not an essence but a lack of essence -- a pathological disruption of natural order... It is possible that getting pegged is worse, because it is in some ways more deviant. Not only are you being sexually penetrated and becoming womanified, but it is by a woman who has become mannified. This is a complete inversion of natural order, meanwhile sex with a catamite is more like a 90 degree rotation of it. Also, I clarify intercrural sex because historically it has been perceived as not as bad as anal sex.
Also by this logic, having sex with a tranny or a crossdressing male is actually gayer than having sex with a man who is merely effeminate. Which is counterintuitive, but I like it because I have had the displeasure of meeting or talking to men who are actually dating trannies and they clearly think they are straight and will act like what they're doing is straight when it so obviously is not.
