If you would treat your (hypothetical or real) partner/spouse the same way you treat yourself, would it be considered an abusive relationship?

[AR47]

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[Swede Immigrant]

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No. I treat myself like a king. But I’d prefer if my spouse stayed in the kitchen.

 

[panchito]

probably by some soy's standards

 

[1Based Frog1]

I don’t tolerate excuses from myself, and I wouldn’t tolerate them from a partner either. That said, I also believe in loyalty and commitment, with no room for laziness, dishonesty, or weakness. A relationship should be built on mutual effort, not one-sided compromise.