You're talking to a brickwall if you ever divulge this topic with parents, don't even bother. They come from an era where women didn't have access to little devices in their pockets which give them constant validation and better option guys a town over. They had to settle for people like Beta Bill back then and nowadays since they can shoot for better due to the great eugenics projects known as Tinder and Instagram they are obviously gonna do that and frankly I don't blame them as if I was a woman I'd do the same, it's a big game of reproduction ultimately so of course you're gonna shoot for the best guy no matter what and these apps make it so easy.
Don't let it get to you, sooner you realise they live on a different plain of existence to you and can't comprehend your experiences and what you face on the daily the better you'll be clarity wise.