Has any of you having been shamed by your own parents for not having a girlfriend?

[Deleted member 8]

When I was a teenager my parents shame me for the fact that I never had a girlfriend in two separate occasions. It basically came from nowhere, it seemed like they just want to humiliate me, for the kicks! The first time was my mother, she was complaining about me, like she always does, and in the end of her rants, she said: "when I was at your age I was already dating". I remember that she was pointing at me with a angry face whe she says that. The second time was my dad, he said the same thing that my mother had said. Has anyone experienced this?

 

[Deleted member 16]

I've been shamed by them for not engaging in social relationships in general since I was a kid, but I don't think they care much about me having a girlfriend or not specifically. I guess they just wanted me to be "normal" in general, but since I was a kid I knew I wasn't made for the normie life, I'm sure they just have recently accepted it. It's not like I'd be able to keep a gf for long if given the chance, I think I've developed avoidant personality.

 

[Deleted member 8]

I've been shamed by them for not engaging in social relationships in general since I was a kid, but I don't think they care much about me having a girlfriend or not specifically. I guess they just wanted me to be "normal" in general, but since I was a kid I knew I wasn't made for the normie life, I'm sure they just have recently accepted it. It's not like I'd be able to keep a gf for long if given the chance, I think I've developed avoidant personality.

Did any girl ever told you that she likes you or show interest to you? I kind have some chances with some gorls, but my autism and social anxiety due years of bully fuck me over

 

[Deleted member 16]

Did any girl ever told you that she likes you or show interest to you? I kind have some chances with some gorls, but my autism and social anxiety due years of bully fuck me over

I was gonna say when I was 6 years old but that obviously doesn't count lmao, apart from that nothing else has happened ever since. I think that if I tried more maybe I would have some chances to get a girl, but it's not worth it for me for the anxiety and autism.

I've lost all interest in getting a girlfriend because it seems like a burden to have in which only the sex part would be worth it. Then again, the reason might be because I'm hikikomoring hard rn, when I go out again my libido will go back to normal levels and maybe I change my mind.

 

[Deleted member 8]

I was gonna say when I was 6 years old but that obviously doesn't count lmao, apart from that nothing else has happened ever since. I think that if I tried more maybe I would have some chances to get a girl, but it's not worth it for me for the anxiety and autism.

I've lost all interest in getting a girlfriend because it seems like a burden to have in which only the sex part would be worth it. Then again, the reason might be because I'm hikikomoring hard rn, when I go out again my libido will go back to normal levels and maybe I change my mind.

how old are you?

 

[Deleted member 16]

how old are you?

I'm young, 20-21.

 

[Deleted member 8]

I'm young, 20-21.

might want to use your young age as a advantage while you can

 

[frightfulcel]

My family never gave it a second thought. They see me as an asexual drone that they have the burden of looking after.

 

[EternalKaczor]

My mother is bluepilled and in denial about me being a loser.

 

[Deleted member 8]

My mother is bluepilled and in denial about me being a loser.

elab more about this, please

 

[Deleted member 12]

Nah, but they suspect I’m gay because I’m single. All of my skincare/hair products further perpetuates their belief.

 

[EternalKaczor]

elab more about this, please

My mom like most of my family has a totally retarded boomer mindset on everything.

according to them, im good looking but shy and i need to be more confident etc.

She says stuff like i should find a job so that i can talk to foids jfl.

 

[patzlaff]

I'm 25 now, never had a much contact with girls in general I'm not bad looking after all... my mother didn't really said much in that context, only something like "when will you finally get a girlfriend, boys in your age already got girlfriends" and so on. Anyway there's no point in having a gf if she isn't like minded like myself in the first place.

 

[Deleted member 8]

I'm 25 now, never had a much contact with girls in general I'm not bad looking after all... my mother didn't really said much in that context, only something like "when will you finally get a girlfriend, boys in your age already got girlfriends" and so on. Anyway there's no point in having a gf if she isn't like minded like myself in the first place.

I am sorry to break to you, but no women is minded like any men

 

[Based Vampire]

When I was a teenager my parents shame me for the fact that I never had a girlfriend in two separate occasions. It basically came from nowhere, it seemed like they just want to humiliate me, for the kicks! The first time was my mother, she was complaining about me, like she always does, and in the end of her rants, she said: "when I was at your age I was already dating". I remember that she was pointing at me with a angry face whe she says that. The second time was my dad, he said the same thing that my mother had said. Has anyone experienced this?

Shame me? Never. I have good parents, very caring. However they would always ask me questions like: 'when are you going to get a girlfriend?', 'look, everybody [of your age] is touching boobs while you're still with your books or watching some bearded idiots' (lol not my fault that most theologians who give YT lectures have beards). Recently however they've stopped mentioning this, stopped bothering me. Maybe they've given up or just came to realize that this topic was sensetive to me (I used to freak out when askes this questions). They are more worried about me being socially awkward and lonesome in general, i.e. basically what parzuncrazer said, can relate.

I have been coomermaxxing and I've given up on this life in general and on getting a gf in particular. Too much effort for too little gain. Besides, being a manchild robs you of any chances of forming long term romantic relationships and being attractive to women in general. Never began.

 

[Karenin]

My dad married the first and only girl he dated in high school, my mother, who turned from a stacy-lite into a fat, crazy gigacunt in 25 years. So he doesn't pressure me to date, in fact he actively banned me from having relationships throughout my school years. My mom doesn't care either; she is too much of a delusional narcissist to think about anyone but herself.

 

[SuperSilver]

Not really. Just called me a homo basically for not talking to girls

 

[Saito]

No shit she was dating as a teenager most foids do.

 

[Fabio]

Thankfully they avoid this topic, I will hear an offhand comment/suggestion once in a bluemoon. But I have reasons to suspect that they legit think I am gay.

 

[Deleted member 8]

It's not like I'd be able to keep a gf for long if given the chance, I think I've developed avoidant personality.

I was gonna say when I was 6 years old but that obviously doesn't count lmao, apart from that nothing else has happened ever since. I think that if I tried more maybe I would have some chances to get a girl, but it's not worth it for me for the anxiety and autism.

I've lost all interest in getting a girlfriend because it seems like a burden to have in which only the sex part would be worth it. Then again, the reason might be because I'm hikikomoring hard rn, when I go out again my libido will go back to normal levels and maybe I change my mind.

Kiryuin Satsuki is the perfect waifu

I've just finished re-watching Kill la Kill after some years of not going back to it, this has been the 4th time now, and goddamn not only did I enjoy it but I did it way more than the other times, something I thought not possible. I guess that when a story has complex concepts in it you just...

chuds.life

Its all makes sense now

 

[HardcoreBlackpill]

in fact he actively banned me from having relationships throughout my school years.

sounds like something hitler would have done if he had a son

 

[UncleSpertz]

They think I'm geh even though gays have it way easier than straight people.